Sometimes I wonder why we go through things in life. Is it to learn? Is it to become stronger? Is it to share our experiences with others? Is it just part of living? I choose to believe it is all those things. I think that the things I’ve gone through in my life serve a purpose- in both my life and the lives of those around me. So this is to the young ladies, the ones who have it together (or at least seem to), the ones who are falling apart, the ones who have given everything and gotten nothing, the ones who feel alone even while surrounded by people. You are loved. You are … [Read more...]
For the Woman Feeling Uprooted
Have you ever felt completely uprooted, disconnected, torn apart? Like a plant that has gone without water for far too long or that is so full to the brim that things start spilling over? I have too. I was doing my best to care for my plants and felt God press something on my heart. Before we begin, you should know that I am definitely the black thumb in my family. My grandmother, aunt, mom, and everyone else it seems has flourishing gardens outside and happy house plants indoors. Not so for me - at least not until this year! The only plant I've been able to keep alive recently was a … [Read more...]
To the Woman Seeking Purpose in Brokenness
Change is hard. The oldest kiddo I watch during the week is 13, and she just found out that one of her dearest friends is moving away. She was devastated. I can relate. When I was her age, by very best friend moved away too. … [Read more...]
You’re Too Emotional
You're too emotional. I can't tell you how many times I've heard that phrase. Most of the people who said it didn't mean to hurt me. But boy did it hurt. … [Read more...]